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About Dove from USA: "Just sing from your heart the entire time and your notes will continue to shine regardless of the dirt that gets splattered around you." - Mariah Carey

MimiL (51,540) by Dove from USA I hate to disagree with you, because I love you, but I must. I love the E=MC2 era picture that she's using for the #1's promo. It's one of my all time favorite MC pictures and I hope she keeps it as the #1s CD cover. When I look at that picture next to all the other album covers on her FB, that's one of the best ones IMO. For the next album with all new music, yes, she should definitely take all new promo pictures, but #1's is a retrospective album, so I think it's appropriate to use an older picture in this case. And that picture is a really good one. (Friday 10 April 2015; 4:05)

Fresh era (51,523) by Dove from USA I'm excited about all these new changes. It feels good, like fresh new things are coming. The new single comes out right before my birthday, and the Vegas show is soon after, so this is going to be a memorable birthday for me. They look so happy and excited in the picture with the Sony logo. I'm so excited. Go MC. (Thursday 9 April 2015; 18:23)

Nick / Abraham / Christmas movie (51,466) by Dove from USA Well, I'm glad they are getting along and I hope they really are becoming friends again. I feel a little bit foolish for believing the tabloid story about him writing a tell all and publicly humiliating her. I am protective of Mariah because sometimes I do feel like I know her. Her presence has been a part of my life for a long time and I sort of saw her as a friend/older sister/guardian angel when I was growing up. Abraham, since Celine is taking over in August I doubt there will be any more promo. People who are in Vegas already may buy whatever seats are left the same day, last minute. I am super excited about the Christmas movie. My favorite movies are Christmas movies and I even like the low budget cheesy ones. I can't wait. (Wednesday 8 April 2015; 2:19)

Nostalgia (51,455) by Dove from USA There are so many nostalgic moments but the ones that came to mind after reading all of yours is this one. I remember the first time I saw the video of Anytime You Need A Friend on TV I was 11. We had one of those big console TVs that are wood and sit on the floor. I was sitting on the floor super close to the TV so that I could change the channel if I didn't like the song because we had lost the remote control. Also because I have a lot of siblings and there was always a lot of noise at my house. This is kind of personal but I'm going to disclose so that the story is complete. My dad went through a period where he drank a lot (this is probably why I don't drink) and he was verbally abusive to my older brother and to me especially when we didn't do our chores but sometimes it would get more personal. My older brother is 2 years older than me. I think my dad could sense that he was gay because he used to call him a faggot. My brother had a plan since he was 10 years old to leave home and he did. He left home at 15, graduated high school at 16 (at the top of his class), and went to college. He didn't speak to anyone in our family except for me (online) for years. But back to 1994: my dad called me terrible names, too, that I don't want to repeat because I'll start crying, but he called me names because I was a little bit chubby. Looking back at pictures of myself back then, I was not that big, but in my mind I was unsightly, and I think his bullying led to an eating disorder that I struggled with for a long time. My mom went through a depression at the time. She couldn't do much because she had always been a stay at home mom and wife and my dad made all the money. My mom didn't speak English (my dad did), she had a bunch of kids, my grandma and aunt lived next door but my dad owned that house too, so there was nowhere to escape to. My mom would have us clean right when we got home from school so that he wouldn't be angry when he came home from work, we would pray that he would be in a good mood, and God would heal him from his alcoholism. I think that's another reason I sat so close to the TV so that I could turn it off when I heard his car pull up and run to my room. Anyway I have two friends who lived on our street back then that I've been friends with since we were 4 or 5. We would have falling outs but always make up. We got into a little fight and they went away for the summer without us making up. I had heard the song AYNAF before because my aunt next door had the CD and I used to listen to it but when a song has a video it gives it a new life. I remember I cried watching it. I think it was everything that was going on in my life and seeing her look so sad and lonely in the beginning but so happy and free in the end. I thought, if she can be so perfect and happy I can too. Someday I'll be free and beautiful and happy. I would pretend Mariah Carey was my best friend. All of her songs and albums have a connection to my life. But that one I had forgotten about until right now. I'm not trying to be all "woe is me" my first job after college was at Child Protective Services, so I know some people have had way worse childhoods, but when you're a little kid and you feel unloved and not good enough it's still painful. (Tuesday 7 April 2015; 16:55)

Addicted (51,429) by Dove from USA Thanks guys, for the warm welcome back. I guess I am addicted. I'm glad I never started smoking because quitting stuff you like is tough. I'm going to try to moderate myself, though, because I was coming on here first thing when I woke up, during breaks and lunch at work, and at night before I went to sleep. Even more on the days I didn't work. It feels good to feel appreciated, so thanks. I appreciate everyone here, even the ones I don't agree with, because you make me see things from a different POV. (Monday 6 April 2015; 3:27)

Body (51,380) by Dove from USA Mariah's body looks great for 45. She doesn't even have a gut, what are you guys talking about? I'm 31 and I look like that now. And I think I look damn good. She's not the 90 pound girl she was in the Vision Of Love video but being thicker will help the average woman identify with her more. As long as she's healthy who cares if she's a little thicker? People seriously need to stop fat shaming. It's hard for most people with jobs and kids to stay super fit after 30. Joan from Mad Men has the exact body as MC and everyone is always saying how sexy she is, why can't MC be sexy? I agree with the people saying the unflattering clothes are the problem, not her body. Andrew I get your point about PhotoShop. For the MIAM cover, MC was actually thinner during the time that cover was shot but gained weight by the time the album finally came out. I don't believe that cover was PhotoShopped as much as it was reported. (Saturday 4 April 2015; 17:48)

About ex's book (51,378) by Dove from USA If publishing can't be stopped, unless he has stories and proof that she rapes children, anything else can be spun in her favor. What she thinks about other artists is probably what we all think about them, too, anyway. I'm sure those same artists have also said things about MC to their partners. It's not good to badmouth other artists but she didn't do that. Husbands, best friends, and parents are a free pass to vent because it's assumed they won't repeat it. If he does, it looks bad on him, more than her. The only part I can see being somewhat embarrassing is the part about her "sexual proclivities". It may be embarrassing for her because she's a private person but I doubt her proclivities are any different than the rest of us. I mean, I doubt she's into being pooped on or peed on. Even if she is, people are so desensitized nowadays that they'll be shocked and talking about it for a week, and then they'll move on to the next gossip. If anything this will hurt him more than her. Who would trust him after this? It makes him look desperate. Plus, by the time this book comes out she'll probably be done with the comeback and on a break so she can just go into hiding for a while. Honestly, I doubt people would pay money for this type of book. If anything people will tune in to Wendy for a sum up or rent it from the library. (Saturday 4 April 2015; 17:04)

I'm back (51,377) by Dove from USA I just can't stay away. I missed you guys and MC so I'm back. I've read back the comments I missed and thanks guys for the sweet words. (Saturday 4 April 2015; 17:03)

Disconnecting (50,979) by Dove from USA I wanted to let you guys know I'm not going to be coming on here anymore. I feel like I've been spending way too much time in front of a screen either: watching Netflix, being on Facebook, coming onto this site compulsively, looking up old MC articles and videos, etc. Those things are okay to do once in a while but I feel like I don't have a real life anymore, other than my job. I've lived on this site since last summer. I'll come back to give my report about the Vegas show and in case people still want to meet up for the Christmas show. Love you guys. I will miss you all. I know MC is going to be spectacular and blow us all away in the best possible way. (Tuesday 17 March 2015; 5:25)

HRC thoughts (50,943) by Dove from USA I just saw the clip of her performance and I enjoyed it a lot. I liked her speech too, it sounded heartfelt and genuine. I love Mariah Carey so much. She's so glamorous and like a living doll but with a beautiful soul. Sidenote: Sorry about my weird "vision" post this morning. I had just woken up. I was still halfway asleep and feeling extra cheesy. If MC knew me I think she would think I was "schmaltzy" because I can be a cheese-fest. (Monday 16 March 2015; 19:38)

Addition to last post (50,936) by Dove from USA I wanted to clarify something about my last post. Each person has free will to create their own destiny. The vision I have (or that you have) for her life and career may not be the same as the vision MC has for herself. Her vision will win out. I just like to put my vision out there because she might like it and accept it. It would be easier to know what to pray for if we knew what her vision was. I guess we could pray that her vision is realized if it's God's will. (Since the infinite intelligence knows the big picture and what's best better than us.) Side note: Not all Sony artists have the scary symbolism in their videos some of you mentioned. I don't think Adele does and I haven't seen it in any of L.A. Reid's artists. I don't watch them over and over, though, so I may be wrong. (Monday 16 March 2015; 15:44)

Faith / Amber (50,935) by Dove from USA I woke up with so much faith this morning. I opened my eyes and noticed the flowers that grow outside my window. It made me think about how they weren't there before and now they are. There is a process that makes flowers grow and bloom, but if we don't understand the process, it seems as if they appeared out of thin air. That's kind of how faith works. If we collectively focus on a vision, if we believe and are enthusiastic about it, it will manifest sooner. Those of you who also want to see MC rising from the ashes to reclaim her place in the music universe, please believe and think positive thoughts. Sometimes I also fall into negative thoughts but starting now I'm going to try to focus on a perfect vision. My desire is for MC to be well and healthy in every aspect. For her career to sky rocket and for her voice, music, and person to inspire the world to be love and a light to others. (Kind, forgiving, calm, gentle, patient, helpful, brave, faithful, encouraging, etc.) Amber, the energy you put out for others will come back to you. Please be careful with your thoughts. I say this to you because the things you are saying are nowhere near true and I wonder why you're saying them. (Monday 16 March 2015; 15:26)

Deedre / Andrew / Jon (50,933) by Dove from USA Deedre, I love your post (50,924) and agree with it. Andrew, I enjoy reading your posts now too. Before I felt they were abrasive and hurtful, but now they make me laugh. I realize now that's just your sense of humor, like Howard Stern and Simon Cowell. I appreciate your descriptive and well written observations and I don't feel like you hate Mariah anymore. Jon, I'm like MC that way, just call my name and I'll be there. (But I've been doing a bunch of extra shifts lately so it actually may take a few days.) (Monday 16 March 2015; 15:20)

Reuben (50,837) by Dove from USA Re: Cover song wish (50,772). I don't listen to ABBA but looked up that song you suggested (Thank You For The Music) because I was curious. It put a big smile on my face. It's a cute, happy, sunshiny song, I liked it. (Friday 13 March 2015; 1:01)

Brandon (50,832) by Dove from USA Adore, it's sexy and reminds me of Sexual Healing by Marvin Gaye. Judging from just that song, though, it sounds like what she's already doing now. I like the sound and energy of the Bruno Mars songs you listed and the Back To Black album by Amy Winehouse. That's exactly what I had in mind for MC also, I just didn't know how to describe it. Like an updated, cool, jazz and big band music. She could do some slow jazzy numbers and upbeat ones to where she can dance to them but she doesn't need to know how to pop and lock. That would be perfect with the current smoky tone of her voice too. Then, David Guetta and Will I Am (or whoever is the hot dance person) can give us some remixes for when we go running. (Thursday 12 March 2015; 21:58)

Mara (50,830) by Dove from USA Mara, I'm not sure whether or not I'm bringing my son yet, but if I don't bring him, I would love to meet up with you and other MCArchives lambs for the Christmas shows. (Thursday 12 March 2015; 21:55)

Showing MIAM some love (50,808) by Dove from USA I mentioned earlier no other album recaptured the essence of a moment like Daydream did. I thought about it some more and I actually think Butterfly and MIAMTEC also do. I just like Daydream better I guess. Maybe because it takes me back to when I first heard it. When I listen to MIAMTEC I actually feel like a lot of songs were written about my relationship: Cry, Faded, #Beautiful, Make It Look Good, You're Mine, You Don't Know What To Do, Camouflage, Money, One More Try, and Heavenly. Even those that don't apply (Thirsty, Meteorite, Dedicated, and Supernatural) I still like a lot. I think I've been trying not to feel the songs on MIAM too much because I'm finally almost 100% over my ex and I don't want to reopen those wounds or fall back into that wretched hole. I think in the future, when I'm fully indifferent, I will appreciate MIAM as much as Daydream. I'm glad it exists. Thanks Mimi. (Thursday 12 March 2015; 2:29)

Marissa / May (50,790) by Dove from USA Marissa, I felt that way too, until Jon summoned me, and now I can't stop. I enjoy your observations. May, I love Ribbon. I think it's so sexy, I just don't like how it starts. I liked MOIA and MIAM but I'm ready for something different now with full promo. I'm glad you're back. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 20:32)

Brandon / Walter (50,789) by Dove from USA Brandon, if you have time can you make me a list of some songs by Happy Perez, Bruno Mars, Mark Ronson, Frank Ocean, and Miguel? These names keep being mentioned here but I have no idea what you all are talking about and I'm so curious. I don't want to just search the artists because I may not click the right songs. I do know Bruno Mars but I want to know what songs you're talking about. I was one of the people who did want for Mariah to work with Walter again because I feel they had great chemistry and brought out the best in each other musically. It was shady that he was making fun of her but I don't believe anyone is 100% bad. I believe every person has goodness in them, sometimes we just need to draw out those good qualities. We do that by focusing on them. But anyway, I've thought about it some more the past few days and even though it would be the perfect opportunity to write a song about forgiveness, if she really doesn't want to work with him for whatever reason I accept it. What about Stevie Wonder or Lenny Kravits? She sounds great doing classic rock like on Bringing On The Heartbreak and it's something different. I also like the song OMG by Usher and Will I Am. She's still young enough to make an EDM dance album. I like the songs with Big Jim Wright but they're so slow. A whole album like that would be boring. Even Want You is too slow. Sorry BJW. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 19:51)

Daydream (50,788) by Dove from USA Daydream is pure ethereal innocence. It describes love before you have ever truly experienced it, the kind that you only know from reading young adult novels or watching movies such as Twilight and Titanic. With Daydream I get so many feelings. I listened to it in the car this morning and Looking In came on. It made me cry a little. Especially the part where she sings, "Well here I am for all of them to bleed." The music is also so heartbreaking. Brandon, I see the similarities but to me Butterfly is Daydream a few years older and sexually active. Daydream actually feels like a daydream. I honestly adore all of her albums but Daydream is otherworldly and flawless to me. I wouldn't want her to recreate it, because she's in a different place now, but just recapture the magic. By magic I mean the essence of a moment and carry it throughout the whole album. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 19:14)

Brandon (50,779) by Dove from USA I'm so glad you're still here. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 15:46)

MIA lambs (50,771) by Dove from USA Where are Edward, Brandon, and Marissa? (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 6:13)

Evolution (50,770) by Dove from USA I was also hoping for an evolution out of rap/R&B. I know MC, and a lot of people on this site, are fans of R&B and rap and I respect that. But I just don't feel it as deeply myself, just like I don't really connect with country music or generic pop. It's looking like we might be getting more of the same of what we've been getting for the last ten years. MC's worst is still better than anybody else's best, so I will still buy and support. Who knows, maybe there can be growth and evolution with JD and Big Jim Wright, we may all be pleasantly surprised. I just can't give up now, I will continue to have faith that what's coming next is going to take our breath away in the best possible way. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 6:11)

Re: Daydream (50,691) by Abraham (50,768) by Dove from USA IMO the magic from the Daydream album has never been recaptured. Each time a new album of hers comes out, even if I think it's very good, it can only be as good as Butterfly for me because Daydream was perfect IMO. (Music Box and Butterfly are tied for second.) I always hoped there would be another album someday as good or better than Daydream. Maybe with an up tempo, pop/rock, acoustic sound and MC's lyrics, melodies, and voice singing songs with more evolved themes giving us a mature insight into her life and experience. (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 6:08)

Covers album (50,767) by Dove from USA It would be super awesome if MC did a cover album of really great songs from different genres. (Happiness is a warm gun?) Maybe she wouldn't love the songs but how long could it take to just go in and record them? Then she can save her energy to write for the type of album she truly likes, loves, and connects with. She's already rich, she doesn't need the publishing royalties for every single song. Right? (Sidenote: my suggestions for covers is in post 49,866.) (Wednesday 11 March 2015; 6:04)

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