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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,437) by Matty from Vancouver Canada

I can understand why they recorded the Christmas duet at the time they did. Mariah was pregnant and as a soon to be mom probably wanted to try and repair her own relationship with her mother. I’ve had friends do the exact same thing with expecting, only to have more fall outs and incidents down the road.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 22:48)


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History is about to be made (106,436) by Xavier mariohmix from Spain

Let's hope so. I usually listen to 181.FM True R&B radio station, and it's one of the most played songs. I'd like to listen to the remix version as often as the original one.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 16:56)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,435) by Xavier mariohmix from Spain

Focusing on specific things don't help to get the whole picture, the way I see it. Five years ago, I used to get along really well with my mother (that doesn't mean we hadn't had our problems before). Two years later everything changed after several incidents and disputes, and I almost stopped my relationship with her. A friend of mine was shocked when I told her. She just remembered how good my relationship with my mother was and how we used to laugh and joke together. But my friend only saw us together a couple of times. I hadn't told her about the negative aspects or past events either. So it was hard to make my friend understand the whole point (also involving other members of the family = my siblings).

To conclude, what I mean is that I guess I understand Mariah in that regard and I feel identified. However, I can't justify anything because I wasn't there, and I haven't heard Patricia's version either. For sure, it would be very similar to my own mother's. Lol. They wouldn't say anything insulting or despicable about us (Mariah and me, I mean), but they would make you think that we are very "special" individuals and excellent at our work, but, at the same time, kind of difficult to deal with. Lol.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 16:52)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,434) by MusicfanJ from Germany

I see it the same way. Why doing a duet for Christmas even on the album with her mum, if she's so bad? It makes no sense at all. Personally I wish they are fine or at least okay.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 11:09)


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History is about to be made (106,433) by Bobby A from United States

I just feel that on Tuesday radio and social media are going to go crazy over the Made For Me remix. I really feel this remix is going to be bigger than all of the other guest remixes she has done in the past 3 years. Are we ready for history to be made? And summer is coming too. Ooh we-ee.

(Saturday 18 May 2024; 10:38)

Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,432) by Edward from USA

In all those interviews, Mariah looks very comfortable with her mother. As I mentioned, twice off-camera at the Beacon Theater, I saw Mariah and her mother together. Mariah didn't need to pretend anything, she was hugging her mother, joking, and they seemed like best friends. Something doesn't add up here, but as good fans, we should support Mariah's narrative. It's what loyal fans do, doesn't it?

I'm not saying she didn't have any negative experiences with her mother, everyone has their issues, but her mother was never mentioned negatively by Mariah or anyone else. While we have evidence of Mariah's erratic behavior, let's, as good fans, remember that never happened.

It seems to me, according to what we've witnessed through the years, that Mariah never holds herself accountable for anything. There's an excuse for everything, there's always something or somebody to blame.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 02:39)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,431) by Mimi L. from Empower Your Highlighter

I was thinking the same, there maybe be conflicted feelings there and Mariah may have felt indebted to her mom for helping her learn and polish her singing and she must have looked up to her as a singer, but on the flip side there may have been a strain from Patricia becoming jealous of her own daughter (hence the "you'll be lucky if you become half a great singer as I am" - not an exact code) and the 911 incident along with other incidents we don't know of that may have happened that later down the line Mariah realized were abusive or cruel. It's sometimes easy to confuse abuse with tough love/care especially when she has been primarily living with Pat the whole of her childhood. She probably grew up and realized she doesn't need that negativity. Also maybe behind the scenes her mom didn't support her through the mess Morgan and all put her through and she felt betrayed. Mariah still gives her mom credit where it's due. She probably just realised as she had her own family that her own was a bit messed up.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 01:26)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,430) by Xavier mariohmix from Spain

Sometimes there are two sides of the same coin. I mean, even though Mariah has always given her mother props for her encouragement, there must also have been differences and difficulties in their relationship. At this stage of Mariah's life, her global assessment may incline more to the negative or negligent aspect of Patricia's role as a parent. I'm speaking from experience in this regard.
(Saturday 18 May 2024; 00:54)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,429) by Tony Lorenzo from UK

Actually Mariah's mother doesn't live in Westchester any more. She lives in a retirement home in Florida. Mariah sold the Westchester house.

They don't get along for all the reasons stated in the book. And more. Mariah tried to paint a picture-perfect view of her family in the early days yo maintain a care-free crossover image that wasn't threatening to middle America. Over time, she cared less about that, particularly after Allison sold stories, and particularly after she had her own children which made her reassess her own childhood disfavourably.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 23:45)


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BET Awards (106,428) by Zachariah from Croatia

I think she is smart with not rushing the album. Look what happened to Justin and J.Lo - people are sick of "old" stars, especially if the material is just bad and boring and not current. Mariah keeps pushing r'n'b sound which has its public but people these days want fast tempo and those Dua Lipa dance light tunes etc etc.

So, either she will put an amazing album which is going to be work of art (right catchy singles, amazing videos) or she is going to swallow her pride and adapt to new trends.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 22:10)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,427) by Matty from Vancouver Canada

Has no one read or hear about Mariah's relationship with her mom? There's a late '90s interview on Oprah and you visually see how uncomfortable Mariah is with her mom.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 21:42)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,426) by Edward from USA

I'm not buying any of it. You don't record a duet with someone you portray as a bad parent in an interview. When Mariah started her Christmas shows at Beacon Theater, I personally witnessed the strong relationship they had. It wasn't just for show, Tommy wasn't involved, and her mother wasn't even on stage. She was simply there to support Mariah. After the show ended, I saw them hugging and being very affectionate.

Mariah's mother was never depicted as exploiting Mariah for money, yet there's ample evidence of Mariah experiencing severe mental strain, culminating in a nervous breakdown during the "Glitter" era. According to Mariah, she just needed rest - indeed, she needed some 911 rest alright.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 18:05)


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BET Awards (106,425) by Bobby A from United States

You're right, Brandon. It seemed like it was last year. On another truth, I guess we are not getting a new album this year either. It will be June in two weeks and still no new album news. What if Caution was MC's last album of new music?

(Friday 17 May 2024; 10:02)


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BET Awards (106,424) by Brandon from USA

That was actually 2 years ago in 2022.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 08:05)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,423) by Steve from USA

I think Mariah made it clear in the Oprah interview for the book and of course in the book itself where the rift comes from. When Mariah was exhausted, mom was unhappy her cash cow was sleeping and not working, and when they began arguing she calls the cops and has her arrested. They basically chased her around New York before that, trying to get her back to work. It's pretty obvious they were trying to have her declared incompetent as a money grab-mama and Morgan. The instability of her family is a big part of why she married Mottola. At first, he isolated her from that madness.

Of course they played nice for the camera in a highly produced special. Watch it again sometime, knowing what we know now. Mariah was extremely coached in those days, and everything was designed to make her appealing to a broad population, which of course worked extremely well.
(Friday 17 May 2024; 03:09)


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BET Awards (106,422) by Bobby A from United States

MC performed last year with Latto.

(Thursday 16 May 2024; 23:49)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,421) by Bobby A from United States

I hope they have reconciled. I remember Patricia being so proud of her daughter in the outside porch mother and daughter segment during the Proctor Theater concert video. She will have only one mother and should cherish her while she's on this earth in spite of what she did or didn't do.

(Thursday 16 May 2024; 20:57)


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BET Awards (106,420) by Brandon from USA

Muni Long is confirmed to perform at the BET Awards. Hopefully she brings out MC to sing the MFM remix with her. This could be amazing. I want them to pull out all the stops.
(Thursday 16 May 2024; 18:36)

Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,419) by Edward from USA

I will never understand the sudden disdain Mariah developed for her mother. Her mother was a significant presence in her life, and Mariah often praised her. It was her mother who encouraged her to say, "When I make it," instead of "If I make it." Referring to her mother as just "Pat" after all these years feels both strange and sad to me. While Patricia may not have been perfect, she certainly doesn't seem like the monster Mariah portrays her to be.

I know she has never forgiven her for calling 911 during her highly publicized nervous breakdown. For some reason, she blames her mother for everything that followed. However, I believe Patricia may have saved her life, as Mariah was definitely acting very erratically at the time.
(Thursday 16 May 2024; 18:22)


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Article: Mariah spent Mother's Day weekend in Westchester (106,418) by Chicago Lamb from USA

Mariah must have visited her mother Patricia. This warms my heart, glad the kids get to see her.

(Thursday 16 May 2024; 14:26)

#Beautiful (106,417) by Bobby A from United States

During this week 11 years ago #Beautiful was the highest debut for on Hot 100 at #24 and then it stalled at #15. I had forgotten that it was a year later the MIAM was finally released. The infamous Wal-Mart leak really changed things in 2013. I am sure Def Jam was expecting #Beautiful to be song of summer. It sure had potential when it was released, but it just didn't have that "umph" it needed to rise higher on the chart. Maybe a summer TV series like ABC's Mistresses tie in would have given #Beautiful that high profile exposure it needed to be a bonafide hit summer song.

(Thursday 16 May 2024; 04:52)

Mariah's voice (106,416) by Bobby A from United States

It is going to be nice to hear 2024 vocals on the radio next week. If stereo FM radio can make Mary J. Blige and Alicia Keys sound good, then I know MC will sound good.

(Thursday 16 May 2024; 03:31)


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Why Mariah Matters (106,415) by Tony Lorenzo from UK

Just in case people don't know, and I havent seen it mentioned but may have missed it, there is a new book out called Why Mariah Carey Matters.

It is a scholarly, deeply intelligent deep dive into Mariah, her songs, her lyrics, producing and songwriting, her place in the musical pantheon, what she means to the lambs and the gay community as well as to tge music industry.

It is written with deep analysis and great thought. It is personal, and it's the first time anyone has got the essence of Mariah down to a tee. You will all have many flashes of recognition and feel like he is reading your mind.

It is a powerful book and you all need to read it if you are fans. It is probably the most important document on Mariah Carey there is beyond her own memoir. In some ways it is more enjoyable than her memoir because it is a serious analysis of her rather than descriptive history of events. Mstiah can't say the same things this man Andrew Chan can because she's too humble.

The best thing about the book is that it doesnt seek to sycophantically praise her as some sort of perfect deity who can do no wrong. He provides a fair assessment of her, soberly. Thankfully he hold her in such esteem that not much negative can be said, but you get the impression he's just speaking the truth with great honesty

Drop everything and read this book. It's not stupidly long but is in-depth.

And if anyone has any kind of access to Mariah or her team, you need to point them in this book's direction. Mariah deserves to read this stuff and know how important she is and how many people totally get her.

If you don't read this book you have missed out on some profound Mariah commentary. I would be doing Mariah a disservice by not encouraging people to read it.
(Thursday 16 May 2024; 00:49)

Mariah's voice (106,414) by Malcolm from Asia

Remember way back 2016/2017 when we used to criticize every performance? I don't know but as I rewatched her performances, it sounds good to me compared to now. I know that she's not getting any younger anymore but whenever I see her Vegas clips, it's a bit sad to see her lipped almost 90% of the show and remember that she used to showcase her belts once in there few years ago but we didn't appreciate it as much that time. I think now is truly the end of an era where we will not be getting any "great belts" anymore, at least concert/performance-wise. I think she now accepts that her voice is fragile than ever that's why she's doing her best on the lipping with the rerecording of her vocals and better transition which I think is finally doing her good since the general public seems to buying it.
(Wednesday 15 May 2024; 23:50)

Anticipation (106,413) by Zachariah from Croatia

I am looking forward for the Portrait house remix. For the Made For Me, not so much. I don't see the point. Her team should have learned by now from the Ariana's example - nobody cares about revamping the song. Leave it and move on.
(Wednesday 15 May 2024; 14:06)

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