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Kyle / Reswirl (46,420) by enwar00 from usa Kyle I honestly hope you're right and that there's more to come from MIAMTEC. I've been thinking about that recently as well, since the songs have come to life for me the past week. I don't think there's anything wrong with making the most of it. I'm sure a lot of us want to see more commercial success for Mariah and it's fun when she's everywhere. With that said, I'm in love with this album and don't consider it a disaster just because of its sales. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 5:49)

Silence is class (46,419) by jaker20 from US I'm surprised some of you consider MC's silence to be a problem. Who cares what people say? There's news every day and not all of them is true, and its constantly changing. She's this and that today, and then tomorrow, it's another. No one cares except tabloid consumers who take everything as factual. No one. MC's silence shows that her concern is not to be holy in the public eye, but her kids. One day, these kids will know their father was badmouthing their mom, and his father wrote a book about it to cash in. Like father, like son, both losers. This is almost unforgivable. No one wants their mother to be humiliated, no one, and especially not in public. Even if their mother isn't perfect. The situation is completely different from Motolla. She's got kids now to protect. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 5:03)

If it's over (46,418) by IheartMC from USA Hey fellows lambs, I am one of the biggest Mariah followers and devoted fans and been feeling very Mariah nostalgic lately and If It's Over comes to mind in recent times. Any other fans fans going through the same thing? This song is often overlooked and it is in one word brilliant. Vocally and lyrically this is Mariah at her best churning it out. Anyone else feeling the same way about this song or any others? You know our girl has so many gems. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 5:00)

A "refresher course" on Mariah Carey (46,417) by this_is_qhm from the Philippines Great article. As much as I love a lot of newer, current artists and appreciate their considerable talent, I'd have to agree that nothing will ever compare to the battle of the 90s divas. Back then, they fought it out with sheer talent and artisty. With artists nowadays, talent almost comes second because the music biz has rather become more of a cutthroat battle of marketing and promotional strategies, employing just about every kind of gimmick possible to command the public's attention. So yeah, the competition definitely was tougher back then, as you can't fake talent. The Philippines is a nation that loves karaoke and amateur singing contests that's why I think young people these days still somehow know who Mariah is. (I mean, seriously, no competition or karaoke night will be complete without a rendition of a Mariah ballad - most likely Hero, Through The Rain, Can't Take That Away, Without You). The only problem is that, like the rest of the world, most teens and twenty-somethings here are also swayed by who's young and what's trendy. Mariah's neither, and for me that's great, but I can only speak for myself. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 3:46)

Matt Lauer interview (46,416) by Manny from U.S. When I watch the Matt Lauer interview one of Mariah's last responses stood out in my head. Matt asked where she was at emotionally. Her response was: "I've always been a pretty vulnerable person but I've built up. I've learned how to built up a wall. So when I have to I can put up that wall and leave it there and walk in the other direction. And that's what I have to do sometimes with people in my life when they just don't get it." I thought it was about the IDJ record executives and how they didn't support her (promotion). I thought there might be a chance it was about Nick. With everything that is happening it seems it was only about Nick. I also noticed she looked sad in the interview (the look in her eyes) even though she was making jokes. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 3:26)

My perfect concert list (46,415) by Tarraga from New York City 1. Triumphant (Vintage Remix) 2. I Still Believe (Pure imagination) 3. My All/Stay Awhile 4. Dedicated 5. If We 6. Always Be My Baby (Remix) 7. Emotions 8. Bliss 9. Vanishing 10. Help Me Make It 11. To Be Around You 12. Fantasy 13. So Blessed 14. You Don't Know What To Do 15. Make It Look Good 16. Loverboy 17. I'll Be There 18. Hero 19. Make It Happen 20. Thirsty 21. Cry 22. Vision of Love 23. The Wind 24. TAOLG I would love the entire concert to be just with a jazz or chamber orchestra and, of course, a grand piano. We can all dream right? Lol. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 3:25)

Divorce (46,414) by Jimbo from UK It was clear to me that they were heading for divorce after seeing the Matt Lauer interview. She was so sombre and her answers were quite revealing, despite never directly admitting anything. The body language in the "home video" also further evidenced Mariah and Nick's frostiness. Not once did she embrace him, or even acknowledge him. Some of you dismissed my interpretation, but I think most would agree now that it's pretty obvious. I also think her troubled home life helps explain her, quite frankly, bizarre behaviour over the last few months. Endless gowns, erratic, rambling speech, substance abuse (?). She must have been going through hell. It was also obvious, at least to me, that many of the ballads on her last album were about Nick. Particularly Cry, Faded and One More Try. It's sad when any couple break up, especially when children are involved. To those who berated her for not focusing on her career as a way of distracting herself from her personal life, I suggest you gain some empathy. Everyone deals with crisis in different ways, we all have our own coping mechanisms. It's arrogant to think your method is the correct one. I hope that this negativity will at least inspire creativity. Butterfly, her greatest work, was born out of personal tragedy. And whilst Butterfly embraces rebirth, it ends on a deeply cautious note about freedom's limitations (Outside). Heartbreak can lead to reflection. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 1:41)

James Cannon (46,413) by this_is_qhm from the Philippines Three things: 1) He has no business meddling in whatever marital problems his son is having, unless it directly concerns him. If this was a way for him to weigh in on the situation while hoping to draw the public's attention to his book, then that's just sad. But it would be in everyone's best interests for him not to comment. 2) I won't say anything on his statement on Mariah "lying all the time" and Nick not, since I don't know what their everyday life is like let alone what their conversations sound like. But talking about someone else's sex life on social media then immediately deleting it is just low. But what's even lower? Mocking someone because of her weight. Like really? Really now? That's downright childish. Especially if that someone happens to be one of the bestselling artists of all time who singlehandedly pulled his son out of relative anonymity by marrying him. And Mimi still looks great whatever weight she is. So congrats, Mr. Cannon, you've not just presented yourself as an immature old man, you've also made your son look like the world's shallowest jerk. Double whammy. 3) He's Roc and Roe's grandpa. Does he really want a stupid, cowardly act like this to be the reason they'd possibly resent him later in their lives? It's bad enough that MC and NC they're probably getting a divorce. He shoudn't make it uglier by putting this on top of that. This is a good example of the fact that age doesn't equate maturity. I now see where Nick got his tactlessness. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 1:09)

Watch out, Nick continued (46,412) by LC from USA I agree. Nick should really watch out. He knows Mariah better than anybody, and from what we know about her, she knows how to get back at someone. There have been rumors that Nick has been badmouthing Mariah through his family members because of the gag order, and if he is, he better get ready. Mariah has all the resources at her disposal to destroy his image and career. Honestly, she could just stage one interview with Barbara Walters or Oprah, and Nick would be done. Not to mention how she could trash him with music. Obsessed, Side Effects, Clown, and Thirsty will seem like light work compared to what else she could say. And did anyone see how ruthless the lambs were to his father on Facebook? He had to take back everything he may or may not have said about M. I know Mariah will take the classy way, as she always does, but that doesn't mean it won't be effective. Her shade is iconic and she'll shade Nick to the ground. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 1:02)

We gon' reswirl this thing (46,411) by Kyle from USA This seperation is explaining so much about the album. One of the release dates was March which is when they started having some serious problems. Mariah haulted production and went back to the studio to record new songs, most likely "Cry.", "Faded", "Thirsty". Back in June, Jill B Scott tweeted to Mariah "We gon' reswirl this thing lol" most likely referencing new music for a re-release of the album. Not long after that tweet we saw Mariah herself post a picture with the caption "after a long night in the studio". This album is going to be rebranded and relaunched. Let's face it, all PR is good PR and now that her name is on every gossip column and internet feed about her divorce, now would be the time to relaunch this project with "Thirsty". She may act dumb but we've all seen the genius of Mariah Carey. She knows how to work it and I do not buy the age crap on radio. A good song that sounds current will get radio play. The singles for this album were all wrong. "#Beautiful" was the right lead single but that should have been followed with "Thirsty" however, "Thirsty" probably wasn't written last summer. This era still has potential and MC will change the game. Again. It's sad to say but she always does her best when she is working with a broken heart. (Wednesday 27 August 2014; 0:37)

Just saying (46,410) by Otti from Belgium She looks healthy on that video of TMZ, she even reminds of her performance at Pavarotti and Friends when she sang My All (heck Yout\Tube). It seems like this album is dedicated to Nick. The song "You're mine" is about Nick, especially when she sings "You make me feel our love would never end, how can I forget baby we were the best." Every fan knows the best songs of Mariah are the ones about her personal life. Mariah's music has soul and personality to it. I think it's sad that they compare Ariana Grande with Mariah Carey. Ariana is an imitator of Mariah, but she forgets one thing. Mariah, writes, produces her own work. It takes more than beauty. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 23:32)

That rainbow's end (46,408) by Andrew from UK I think the reasonable among you probably understand that Mariah can't go on forever, and doesn't the end feel nigh? I think most things could be forgiven but the endless lip-syncing is now a global joke. Does anybody believe she really hits these notes in the studio anymore when she struggles to get an octave lower when she actually does pop a live note out? Don't question my fan status: it's a little "argumentum ad hominem". I've followed Mariah all my life. My point is this: it has to stop sometime, for her sake also. Is the amazing legacy not being damaged now? There is absolutely no sign of anything changing and yet "next time she'll do it, next time she'll be good". It's becoming a very familiar sentiment. Having said that, I just watched A Home For The Holidays from 2001. Never Too Far/Hero and I'll Be There. Loved that era - was when I first moved to University in London. Absolutely loved it. I miss the singing, the look, the presence, the "accessible" music, the "non-elusive" (ie. cared about her career) Mariah; the Mariah that would interview and be sweet and funny and not recite dreary rehearsed lines in monotonous, fake accents. Really good memories. Check out Mariah presenting The Friday Night Project and tell me you don't wonder what went wrong and when ax. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 22:46)

Re: Carla my problem with Mariah (46,407) by nikki from usa I'm not talking about Mariah making any responses guarding her situation period. In the 90's we all knew generalizations about our celebs, but we knew their music more than anything else. MC doesn't have to share her privacy. Nor am I talking about "attacking" anybody. Letting people tear her apart isn't "classy". I'm talking specifically about the media taking things too far and giving them consequences for it. I also specifically stated that Mariah doesn't need to fight everyone, but she needs to draw a line somewhere. Mariah doesn't have to do it herself, either. Simply having a rep telling them to back off while the family is experiencing a difficult time would reduce some of the sensationalism. It's diplomatic and doesn't answer anything. Not saying anything period will just make the media more blood hungry. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 22:44)

She won't go overboard (46,406) by Edward from USA I think Mariah has expressed herself on MIAMTEC about her relationship with Nick. I don't think she's going to be killing Nick lyrically in future projects, for the simple fact that they have two beautiful twins together. I don't consider TMZ on the same boat as most tabloids who only put out lies. When TMZ brings it, it is usually true. I haven't personally heard something from them that wasn't true. I think that more than sad Mariah is relieved it is over. At least that's what I could get from the TMZ video and the picture with Nick. I think she got tired of being lonely and dumped his ass. I like Nick, I just think he didn't have his priorities right. When you have a beautiful rich wife, beautiful kids, and you are financially stable, you make your family your first priority, then dem gigs. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 22:19)

Long lost love / she only wanted (46,405) by Edward from USA "Cry" is definitely about a long lost love, not a recent one, a love she just realized was worth it, but now it is too late. Maybe Derek or Luis Miguel. On the other hand, the lyrics for "Thirsty" and "Camouflage" apeopley to Nick in their entirety. The verse of "Camouflage" that reads: "Weary sometimes when I try to discern our reality. Wish that I just could be somebody else if you talked to me. Kept praying inside let him love me for who I am. Please my Lord" makes feel her pain. It seems to be that Nick fell in love with Mariah the girl who lives inside the golden world, but he might have never loved the real real Mariah. JD said that people were going to talk more about what was coming next than what was going on with the album's promotion, I thought he was talking about a new project, but he was definitely talking about the divorce, and he was spot on. I don't think Mariah is trying to save her marriage, I actually think she's happy that it is over. There's a saying in Spanish that states: "It's better to be alone than with someone who will hurt you." I'm pretty sure she tried her best to save what could be saved, but it didn't work out. She and Dem Twins will be just fine. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 21:58)

Thoughts (46,404) by Dove from USA I'm glad we got to see in the TMZ clip that Mariah seems to be fine. It kind of worried me that she had no security, though. It made me think of John Lennon (knock on wood). I agree with the poster who said she doesn't owe us an explanation regarding her private life. I think she's doing the best thing by laying low and letting things settle down. Also, glad they're staying amicable, it's great for the kids when parents are able to do that. Even though a world tour would be great, I would understand if she needed to take some time off right now. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 21:31)

Mimi L / Tobby (46,403) by Bill from the UK Thank you for liking my set list Mimi L, I tried to keep it as realistic as possible. Vanishing live is a real dream of mine and I love her renditions on The First Vision, Arsenio Hall (or SNL?) and the Music Box tour. Especially when she goes into a whistle during the "home stretch". Tobby, I've always thought a duets album is long overdue. I'd also like to see Hopelessly Devoted To You with Olivia Newton-John (full length), as well as Chain Of Fools with Aretha as they tore the place down with that performance on Divas Live. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 21:04)

I hope you're doing well (46,402) by Musti from UK This comes from the bottom of my heart. Although Mariah is a strong person, we all know she is also quite sensitive and fragile. In the earlier years of their marriage she had found a safe place in Nick and one could tell from her face that she was genuinely happy. Shame that Nick could not keep up with Mariah's love and general class. I can imagine she must be pretty heartbroken right now and she's probably looking to get away, hence this tour to the far east. No doubt Roc and Roe are making it much easier for her to handle. Although I truly hope she finds love again, I believe her only true love are those two kids. The rumours about her mental health and her capacity to raise them are rude and none of anyone's business. Being a mother is the best job she's ever had and does she know it. I hope this whole experience doesn't cause her to build more walls (Matt Lauer interview, anyone?). She's got too beautiful a heart to shut herself out like that. I wish her all the best. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 20:49)

Mariah's silence (46,401) by Stacey from USA I understand some frustrations with Mariah remaining quiet. You want her to tell her side of the story, set the record straight. I get it. However, emotions are too raw right now. New information is coming to light everyday. MC didn't talk about her divorce from Tommy until years later, partly because she couldn't. Still though, it was wise to let the situation play out and it allowed her to move on. She handled her breakdown the same way. She recorded a new album and allowed the promotional tour to all the talk shows as a way to talk about what happened after the media had moved on to other news. I think Mariah is wise to stay quiet. 1) If Nick shoots off his mouth, over time, it makes him look silly. 2) Right now the media is controlling the conversation. In time when the divorce is final, Mariah will talk and be able to control the narrative as she's done in the past. Plus, she's got kids to think about too. That changes everything. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 20:18)

Mariah not commenting (46,400) by Mimi L. from Empower Your Highlighter I get angry when Mariah doesn't comment regarding her professional stuff like album and all, but I am actually fine with her not hitting back at people talking about her divorce. Hollywood is a bad place, they will put people on pedestals and then they will try to tear them down. It's better not to comment on the rumors about her personal life because it's nobody's business. I respect her for not going on throwing mud. Even Beyonce and Jay Z has been attacked with divorce rumors and the rumor mills went back and forth with "his fault her fault" situation. But they don't comment on it at all. What saddens me however is that I see many comments and gossip pages say it must be tough and exhausting to be married to Mariah Carey. That's sad, because we don't know her personally. We don't know how she is behind closed door when the makeup and the glamorous clothes and the big hair comes off. For all we know, she must be very normal and quiet and not demanding towards her family. I mean she may demand this and that at hotels, but she may be completely different with her family and close friends. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 20:13)

"Divorce is hot topic... too hot" (46,399) by Joyce from USA She looks really good in that TMZ video. She looks so back down to earth and like she's 35. She should really stay that look. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 19:58)

Standing up for Nick (46,398) by Anonymous from Now that I have stood up for Mariah I have to stand for Nick. When did the album come out? May? When did they split up? May? Maybe Nick was really hurt when that album dropped and he left. I don't blame him. Those words sting when they are about you. Mariah can write very well. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 19:37)

Re My Problem with Mariah - Nikki USA (46,397) by Carol from Spain I understand your concern but she is doing what she always did: she is being classy and let the heat settled down. Besides, things are different, once she's a mother now. I think, in time, when the things are completed, Mariah will put some light on the subject but, for now, I think she just needs to put her own life back together. Besides if she came out and attacked everyone who attacks her she would be seen as someone who's hidding something. It's not worth it and she hates drama in public. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 18:48)

My problem with Mariah (46,396) by nikki from usa I wish at some point she would stand up for herself. The problem with silence is it allows slack jawed yokels to talk. All anyone knows about MC for the past 15 years is gossip columnist stories. We used to get specials, interviews, and live behind the scenes. You got to know Mariah and form your own opinion. Now, the only "information" is rumors. After hearing them for 15 years people believe them. Mariah will allow anyone to mess with her and that's why they do. Quite frankly, the gossip about her mental state is pure slander and defamation of character. Passing someone off as crazy for keeping to themselves and taking care of their kids is uncalled for. They should be threatened with a lawsuit. A rep should release a statement telling the press to back off and allow the family privacy. If the press is so concerned with their children's well being than they should stop dragging their parent's names through the mud. MC doesn't need to fight everyone, but she should have some standards, and check those who cross them. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 18:28)

Watch out, Nick (46,395) by this_is_qhm from the Philippines With all the news about Mariah and Nick's troubled relationship, I'm really glad Mariah's keeping it classy. I know I've complained about her keeping quiet before, but this time, it really is the best thing for her to do. I couldn't care less if she'll ever talk about it in future interviews, because I know it will come out somehow in her music. I really hope she uses all this negativity and channels it in her music and performances. Some artists come up with their best stuff during some of their darkest times. Britney was worse than LiLo and Paris combined in 06-07, but she surprised everyone with Blackout when most people thought she was busy crashing cars, shaving her head, crotch-slipping, and attacking paparazzi. Fleetwood Mac were practically disbanded when they managed to create Rumours by setting aside their differences and focusing on the music. It's safe to say that an exposé of what Mariah is going through right now is definitely in the horizon; it's just a question of when. Brace yourself, Nick. You know Side Effects and Obsessed. Thirsty was just the tip of the iceberg. (Tuesday 26 August 2014; 17:10)

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